It Feels Good To Be Neat
Before I was married, I am never so neat.If you had seen my Toa Payoh flat or Chai Chee flat, you will know what I mean.
When I was teaching in PPH, I had seasons for bags. Meaning, for one term, I may be using the same bag and paper/plastic bags, so all the things which I used would be in that bag, never sorted out or packed away. So, when I needed to trace my stuffs, I needed to recall which season did I use them. Hahaha ... tedious? Not at all, I could work easily through my organised mess. And I always told my mum, "Do not touch my stuffs of pack my things for me."
Hahahaha .... those were the days.
I remembered when I first stayed together with Josh, it was also like that. Seasons of bags, for almost a year. He couldn't stand that and was always clearing the bags off the floor.
Over the years, I've become neater.
Now, at times, I can't stand mess.
Now, I pack almost everything in boxes and shelves.
Now, I file everything.
Now, I don't keep so much junk. Or if I really have to, may store them away in sealed boxes.
I enjoyed packing and tidying yesterday.
And it was especially fun when you have your beloved doing it together with you. We didn't pack the same stuffs, but the simultanous packing action motivated me.
When I stepped into the kitchen after calling it a day for the study room, I welcome the new arrangement definitely.
I love you, my love. I know why you are for me. So that I can be neater ! Hahahaha !!!!
Love,
Jessselyn Ng
4 Comments:
And have I become less D at the same time and more C? Hahahaha ....
Ya, esp after starting work, I realise Mrs Ng is indeed different from Miss Liau. Mrs Ng can be nitty-gritty too. Liau looked at the big pictures those days.
Remember our PPH wedding? I'm so thankful for that team of mothers, now that I think back. They really look into the details for the children, from the hairbands to the socks and flower baskets, etc ... the buffet arrangement etc....
I'm glad for the on-going changes.
Love you!
Love
What's with the C, D and E? Hmm... I think only both of you can decode your special language. : )
*sigh* Time to move the light bulb away.
Thanks Ezmum, it all makes sense now. DISC is the personal profiling test.
Yah, DISC.
I first did the test when I was 22?
My score for D is very high.
Followed by I.
Then C and S.
The course instructor looked at my boss, Mrs Yew, and went, "You must keep her. She can be your driving force. You just tell her what to do, she will get it done."
Through DISC, it is also easier for me to understand how some people work and why they work in that manner. I also know the kind of people whom I have to be more patient with and what kind of people can't stand me, hahaha ....
Love,
Jess
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